Some guys are just assholes.

Me and my boyfriend who is miles away from were having our daily conversation a while ago through ym voice chat until one of his friend and also our former classmate in school ‘buzzed’ him. 

              Classmate: BUZZ! tol, musta? 

 

              Boyfriend: eto ayus lang kachat ko si tin, lapit na uwi ko. =)

 

              Classmate: naku eh baka naman pagkauwi mo.. pagbalik mo ulit jan sa Canada daddy ka na! haha!

 

              (My boyfriend told me what classmate said to him)

 

              Me: Eh anung irreply mo sa kanya?

 

              Boyfriend: Anung gusto mong ireply ko?

 

              Me: Sabihin mo sa kanya di mangyayari yun, ibahin nya tayo.

 

              (boyfriend passed my message to classmate and classmate replied back.)

 

              Classmate: Wushu. tol! di mo rin masasabi! Wala na kayo magagawa pag nanjan na yun!

 

              (boyfriend told me what classmate has said)

 

              Me: Sabihin mo sa kanya, ibahin nya tayo. We have plans. Di tayo tulad nung iba jan. marami pa tayong plano sa buhay sabihin mo.

 

              (Classmate replied to what I’ve been said)

 

              Classmate: Tol, natural lang yun sa nagmamahalan! tsaka di nyo rin magsasabi pag nanjan na yun!

 

              (Boyfriend told me what classmate said…) *repeat til fade

                My boyfriend and his friend’s conversation which allegedly became a conversation between his friend and me  turned into a non-stop debate until what he was saying reached below the belt and I got really pissed off . Like hello, dude what are you trying to say? that no sex before marriage is impossible? Dude like what i said from the start of the conversation, WE ARE DIFFERENT.  He respects me. We are serious about our relationship. WE ARE NOT LIKE YOU. Don’t compare us to you or any other teeny bopper couples you know. It depends on the couple if they want to do it or not. You have to be very conscious and aware of what might happen when you do that.  And about the virginity thing for a man that you’re telling me? Dude naman, who cares when you graduate college still a virgin? Well to think.. in reality, that’s exactly what guys should do! They should keep their balls off until they are married, prepared, mature and stable enough to start a family! Put that in mind .    

Yes we are in love and we respect each other. He respects me a lot. Right from the beginning, your friend and I had an agreement or should i say a vow about it. He told me that he’s more than sure enough that I’m the one he wants to marry, thus he can wait.  Best thing he said is that he believes that there’s more in our relationship than sex… we’re consistently happy even without it. We love each other - that is more than enough to keep our relationship strong. (yep that’s my man =) )

Yes I won’t lie that we do get to be ‘intimate’ sometimes because we do love each other  but we also do know about our limitations. A hug and a kiss on the cheeks is more than enough for us to comfort each other.  Tsaka isa pa, we’re still young. We are in love — and love is patient and kind.

Sabi nga sa bible, 

He must realize that love is patient and kind; it does not seek to please itself, nor does it delight in evil, but is always hopeful (1 Corinthians 13)

Well actually what I was just trying to say is that..         

You pervert need a lesson. I think you should learn the true meaning of love and having a relationship.

Also, I want you to know that you’re a jerk and that you’re a real loser. Hope you can get a chance to read this.

Dude, get a life.

or… 

Here’s a knife 

and Kill yourself before it’s too late. Good luck.